Goals only work when they’re yours. Not just yours on paper—but yours in spirit, personality, and motivation.
This isn't just about setting goals. It’s about aligning them with your natural strengths, your deeper desires, and the season of life you're in now.
Sometimes we chase goals that aren't really ours—or ones that exhaust us because they
ignore how we naturally work best. This reflection helps you step back, check the
alignment, and shape your goals to truly fit you.
What’s the goal you’re currently working toward—or considering?
Goal: _________________________________________________
What’s the true motivation behind it?
Does it feel like something you ‘should’ do—or something you genuinely want?
What’s the deeper value this goal connects to in you?
Describe yourself honestly and generously. Think about your talents, values, skills, and
character.
Which of these strengths, skills, or supports are you already using toward your goal?
Are you leaning on your natural gifts—or working against yourself?
Are there habits, fears, or personality traits that might trip you up?
Example: I want to teach, but I get overwhelmed in groups. I want to write, but I tend to
procrastinate.
What could support or balance these patterns?
Are there any essential skills or experiences you’ll need to grow into this goal?
Is it worth investing in? Could you partner with someone who has what you don’t?
Imagine you’ve achieved this goal. How does it feel?
How might people around you react—and how do *you* feel about those reactions?
What changes? What doesn’t?
Having reflected on your motivation, your strengths, and potential roadblocks:
New Goal Statement (if revised): _________________________________
You can revisit this reflection regularly—whenever you feel off track, flat, or unsure. Good goals evolve as we do. The key is to stay honest, stay curious, and stay aligned.
